How to cut emotional ties? ✂ Rituals to end attachment

It is important not to confuse emotional attachment or dependence with love. One of the most common symptoms of attachment is when one of the two people gives up their way of being, their hobbies or friends to please the other. This first is canceled, almost always without realizing it, hiding in love or falling in love . This emotional attachment arises from fear, insecurity, or even manipulation. The fear of rejection, abandonment or feeling alone can lead to losing oneself and stop valuing, therefore, emotional attachment often ends with self-esteem and self-love .

These types of ties end up generating a toxic emotional dependence . To end this, the first step is to take responsibility for your emotions, knowing that we ourselves are the ones who assume this role of dependence, and only we can change it. Once the problem is recognized, we can act accordingly ...

Step 1. Identify what things you have done for that person that have hurt you 🙏

What people have you left aside, what have you stopped doing, what deals or attitudes you have accepted and did not deserve ... Now you are aware of what you have experienced, suffered or abandoned by that person.

Step 2. Learn to say NO ❌

Try to be assertive in your relationships, saying what you think, but always in a correct and polite way. In this way you will prioritize yourself and work on your emotional balance. Help yourself with the Herb Candle of Mood and Self-esteem to eliminate the fear of making that change of attitude.

Step 3. Take distance ✋

Remove these emotions and feelings of attachment or even that person by working with Saint Alejo. In last quarter, use a Prepared Candle of Saint Alejo. Record with a sharp object the name of the person you want to push away, from the bottom up. Once consumed, repeat the San Alejo prayer for 7 days in a row.

Step 4. Cut the loop: cutting ritual with the Scissor Candle ✂

Use a paper to write in pencil the bow you want to cut and place it under the candle. Before turning it on, visualize how that person definitely leaves your life, and also your thoughts towards him. Light the Scissor Candle and let it burn for 10 minutes. Subsequently burn the paper in one of the wicks to definitively close this stage.

Step 5. Work on forgetting 🕯

If you still have thoughts towards that person, use a Herb Candle of Oblivion on the next full moon. If, on the contrary, you need that person to forget about you because he appears in your life and does not allow you to close the cycle, use a Prayer Candle for 3 full moons Forget Me. You can repeat this ritual as many times as you need.